Friday, August 24, 2007

Values in Life

I do not have much knowledge to discuss on this subject, even you will surprised to know that I do not use to read novels and such kind of books but, I will try to draw a simple overview of values in life, based on my on simple mind analysis and some of my experiences.

See first thing you need to understand is; the life which you are living is not a race track. If you are just competing and running to achieve many goals without thinking, then you are spoiling not just your life but also the whole system.

Dedication and responsibility. These are the two key features of to be a human being.

Its a very general thought that "I am doing my work, who cares about system." so my dear , a person from Venus or Mars will not come and do good things for you and others.

Let’s have small story.
There were five houses in a lane and they planted a small plant and made a protocol for watering so that the plant will remain alive. According to that protocol in a day every house has to water 5 drops only which is good enough for the plant but soon two houses started to think that my 5 drops contribution won't make any difference and tomorrow any how they didn’t watered the plant. This type of thought produced a kind of frustration to those who are still giving 5 drops per day and also for the one who is dropping 10 more drops to their account also.

In a human system generally we see that how much work a side person is doing and how much i am doing. First thing you should be responsible and dedicated irrespective from the rest of the nodes
because this is the first principle of ad hoc network. Second thing you should be prepared to take burden of others responsibilities only to run the system as efficient as you want.

One student asked me a question that “I am doing a project in which we are 4 but other 2 are not working as efficiently as we did and we got same number irrespective of the hard work and the worst scenario is that other groups are coping the code form Internet and getting equal numbers what should I do”

Well my answer was: Please do not see the others progress as you should be strong enough to remain attached to your values so that you cannot deviate by any external persons act. Actually Britishers has corrupted our value based educational system is converted it to an evaluation based educational system, according to me percentage or marks are not the only criteria for the education.

Always remember that Life of short-cut is always short. I can give example of my graduation where I was putting a lot of efforts in my assignments, course work and projects and other stuffs without deviating form my thoughts, and that gave me a fruitful result because of the hard efforts put before and today I am a student of IIT Delhi. On the other hand my project mates were unable to give proper explanation of project at their interviews. If a person is not intentionally doing hard work then you are free to remove him/her from your group or if he/she is good person, you can give encourage him/her to work so that your system becomes more effective.

My basic view or motive is that you should be and remain dedicated to your work irrespective of other person's contribution, If the other person has a real soul then definitely he/she will realize his/her duty and responsibilities and then after will actively participate.

One more point I want to make is that in every system there are non-social elements their specility is they are very cunning and selfish by nature. To get rid off them is not only possible by ignoring but also you should stop supporting them at all, because the person who destroy stability of a system by some means for his benefits is not eligible to live in that system, these people are good dish(Mind) washer who destroy your individuality as well as your thinking power and then you will start categorizing the work done by you and by others.

In an organization or a company they are not only concerned with their employees work but they also foresee the loyalty and honesty in a person, all employees in an organization need a working environment and want workability. I read in a book “if your workplace is fully functional without non-social and undedicated and irresponsible person then your system will be highly productive”, and at least for my company I want the good , healthy and dedicated people around me.
Every body is aware of these small things so I am revising them.

I am just following a simple rule that for purification of thoughts remove all non-logical part of mind and then you will find that there is very simple way to get solution of any problem and your thinking will become very simple and transparent. This moment your heart and mind will not be having any difference and contradictions and you will be speaking exactly what you think without hesitations.

to be continued...........

Acknowledgement : I am highly thankful to Mr Akash Batra to correct grammatical mistakes in initial version of this article.
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Nimesh Mittal said...

nice work keep it ....there are some sentence which are not form properly ...but the priceless value behind them truly impress me ....waiting for ur next version ...keep writing

sunita said...

nice perspective :)
but somethings are not properly understood may be language bugs.
more important things has been mentioned , which is valuable and adoptable....good..

Narendra Sisodiya said...

Dear Friends,
I am poor at my written and spoken skills with respect to English, so please correct my languages bugs. Actually I do not have a habit to read newspapers and novels and because of this my English is so poor.

adarsh said...

i hv understood yr thinking

u can be creator of a great system for mankind..

keep it on.....


kapil said...

Thanx Dear for your efforts and feelings . I am sure these few words can change the whole scnerio , if we could impliment these rules/thoughts in our life .
You have done a excellent job , plaese keep it up .
Good luck !!

Narendra Sisodiya said...

Thank you all for your support and comments, now if you feel these are good thoughts so my dear now it is your turn to contribute 5 drops by sending this link to your friends. Soon I am going to start a big mission of India and I want it to make biggest mission to make our India as ******** (till now it is confidential) . I need support support from Every corner of India and even world.

Vitesh said...

WOW!!! I like the way u think about values.Few errors but the content was clearly understood...waiting for the mission 2 start...!!!

ankit said...

its a reallly nice work...
and i appreciate ur thinkin...

Anonymous said...

its nice yaaar..

every one should be like you.
we all are waiting for your BIG mission to change the fate of india.


that's really great ^^^^^^^
Well keep it up *****

dicky said...

Its fantastic sir..
keep it up..

Anonymous said...

Well written!
Good thoughts are the food to mankind.
This is one of the pieces.
Good Work!
Keep it up.

Tomahawk said...

A unique person I have just discovered strangly after knowing him for past one and a half year, I was unlucky not to know him early, but later, ok better, very enthusiastic, mature, original thinker. Best of luck dude.

deepak said...

well written
very very appreciate
very nice
but in sentence there are lots of grammeratical mistake if you have some
problem then you can ask to your younger
brother becoase he has studyed of grammer in bhopal for three month and he(deepak) also teach grammer to their friend in free anyway you have grammer mistake but I have spealing mistake so if I have done some spealing mistake then sorryOK NOW I WANT TO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT .ACCORDING TO ME VALUES OF LIFE DEPENDS ON PERSON .I BELIVE IN HARD WORK AND NOT BELIVE TO WORSHIP TO GOD BECOASE I BELIVE IN HARD WORK IF YOU DO HARD WORK THEN YOU WILL GET WHAT DO YOU WANT .

Anonymous said...

The guy with a repository of values, goes to the professors to increase his grades in the end of each semester.
I am wondering where those values go into hiding when it comes to saving his scholarship.
I feel his values are having a pareto distribution in spatio-temporal space.
--Your dearest friend, with no *values.

Where as per narens definition
values = k*(10 - CGPA)
k-is a pareto distribution mean